One mistake I often see is people waiting too long to file for divorce. Make no mistake—divorce is a major, life-changing decision, and we understand how hard it is to end a relationship with someone you once planned to spend your life with. However, if you’re sure your marriage is over, delaying the process can lead to serious problems, particularly if you have young children or are worried about your financial future. Taking action sooner rather than later can help protect your future and the well-being of your family.
Impact on Your Children
If you’re considering “sticking it out” for the sake of the kids, keep in mind that staying in a hostile or unhealthy environment can sometimes cause more harm than good. Constant exposure to fighting or tension can negatively affect your children’s well-being.
Another disadvantage of waiting is delaying the start of your new life. In Tennessee, there’s already a statutory waiting period before a divorce can be finalized – 60 days if you don’t have minor children and 90 days if you do. By postponing filing, you’re only prolonging the process and delaying your chance for a fresh start.
Impact on Your Financial Security
Some worry that filing for divorce might cause their spouse to take money or sell things. But in Tennessee, when you file for divorce, a rule (mandatory injunction) immediately goes into effect. This rule stops you and your spouse from selling property, hiding money, or making bad financial choices. If your spouse breaks this rule, they can get in trouble with the court (held in contempt of court). So, waiting to file could put you at more risk.
If you have any questions about the divorce process, please contact us now.
